Confuzzeled

yes, a word some of you hear me use quite often, but this situation i really don't get.

Fights; I just don't get them. Now I myself, absoutly dislike fights yet alone the thought of people not liking me.. a bad habit i know, so when somebody gets mad at me, I usually try to resolve the conflict as fast as possible (because i hate fights!!), and it seems like most of the time, the fights. Thier really dumb!

Now i can understand if you fight because you don't agree on somthing, or because of somthing someone said, or somthing. But when people get 'mad' at me because of somthing I did, (like, ahem. Not putting my hear down ?!) Now that! Is just plain stupid.

Not like im calling people stupid, I just think you should choose your battles, if somthing does somthing you dont enjoy (example. swearing) Just talk to the person instead of making a big deal, getting mad at them, saying all this stuff behind thier back to other people and roll your eyes at them everytime you see them!!

thats really a big pet peeve of my, i just don't like it one bit.

I mean, what if God. Everytime we did somthing he didn't like, he got mad at us and wouldn't talk to us ? just cut us off in everyway, when we ask for forgiveness, he just cuts you off because he doesn't wanna forgive you yet. Wouldn't that sadden you ? make you frustrated ? Make you lose faith in him, exactly, but we know he would never do somthing like that, he loves us too much!

ahh , i feel a bit better.. =) but it still confuzzels me