choices

Choices can be good, choices can be bad, basically one of the only things you really can control, if your a christian like me, Christ is usually the main factor that leads to the choice you make, especially when it comes to relationships, lately i have been faced with this hole relationships thing, and I based a guy i know that likes me on that he was already a christian (whitch is awesome!!), and i thought was great, a realtionship that involves christ always brings people closer. and this guy told me that he was a christian, okay, so far, s`all good, familys nice, friends nice, him nice, then I hear him say some things that *Arent so nice*, this is when my head goes into the red zone, and really this is wear my mind goes all, confused because it could be these 2 possible senarios; senaro 1; hes not perfect, noone is, maybe he just having a hard time right now going into the right direction..we all sin at one point or another, or senario 2; hes not a christian, he lied to me about it and this relationship could go down hill very fast!! either one could be true, i dont know whitch one to believe, ask him about it? i dont wanna entergate him about it! tell him its wrong? telling him its wrong isent gunna make him want a relationship with Christ, maybe im not ready for a relationship, i cant have one just because others think its a good idea, ill leave this work to Gods hands, im hopeing he`ll lead me in the right direction, in the meantime, i dont know what to do